[ Matt didn't think it was bratty! But to be fair, that's probably part of how he keeps getting himself into these intractable sex-adjacent situations. ]
Well PLEASE tell me everything you feel comfortable sharing
[Sending a thank you card in impeccable handwriting to the person who insulted your handwriting while ordering you around is a brat move, he'll stand by that.]
Oh my god okay so My partner Wade and I both woke up after having the same freaky dream, right? Except he woke up wanting to dominate the shit out of someone, and I woke up all needy and submissive So he came over and collared me, whipped me, and then fucked me on every piece of furniture in my bedroom And that just sort of led to him taking me to his place and spending the days leading up to Brumfast making me his little sex toy.
For the record I wasn't tied up the entire time, but it's been a few days and I am still fucking wrecked and unable to walk straight.
Meanwhile ... wow this is a lot. Kind of like the XXL version of the time he tied Liem up and they talked about a similar just-my-little-toy scenario. Matt was already feeling hot under the collar, but now his mouth is distinctly dry. ]
That sounds like a really good time to be honest
congratulations and my sympathies
[ A pause. ]
I don't know if I knew you had a partner/bf?
[ That'd have to be recent, right? It feels like yesterday that Matt was showing David around Sumarlok brunch spots, answering questions. Also, he assumes they're open but now might be a good time to check. ]
[ They are truly on the same thirsty wavelength. ]
That sounds really good of him π₯° [ And, you know, mandatory, but Matt can acknowledge that we don't live in a perfect aftercare universe. ] And ahaha, good to know
That's so nice, though! I hope I get to meet him sometime
[ In his heart, Matt's feeling a little weird about this? Not because David's dating someone, but just ... Matt's been here way longer, and to his name, he's got one breakup, a deeply complicated friend breakup and platonic (?) kink situation, an agreement to have coffee regularly with a beautiful girl, and the position of Nikolai's sexual runner-up.
Oh, you have to meet him. He's the definition of a wildcard, but if you can get past the constant, near-unintelligible pop culture references and the complete lack of a filter in any sense, he's a really sweet guy.
[Glowing praise from David, honestly.]
That aside...I'd love to catch up with you soon. After the holiday, maybe?
[ Not that he knows David super well, but from this description, he can imagine the pair of them being formidable in conversation. Probably fun to third-wheel for, though. Like watching a ping-pong match. ]
And catching up sounds really nice. All this talking about being tied up for days and
like
my entire morning
has me thinking fond thoughts about the BDSM zone
(We can also catch up in a nonsexual way, I'd enjoy that also.)
[ He and David are truly way past due for a tying-up-and-edging session. But Matt doesn't want to neglect the other aspects of knowing a person. He knows he has a tendency to do that, to get caught up in the perfect rush of physical intimacy and forget that like, sometimes you talk and ask questions and stuff. He's trying to improve on that score. ]
In the meantime ..... thanks for talking this out with me. I really appreciate it.
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Well PLEASE tell me everything you feel comfortable sharing
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Oh my god okay so
My partner Wade and I both woke up after having the same freaky dream, right? Except he woke up wanting to dominate the shit out of someone, and I woke up all needy and submissive
So he came over and collared me, whipped me, and then fucked me on every piece of furniture in my bedroom
And that just sort of led to him taking me to his place and spending the days leading up to Brumfast making me his little sex toy.
For the record I wasn't tied up the entire time, but it's been a few days and I am still fucking wrecked and unable to walk straight.
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Meanwhile ... wow this is a lot. Kind of like the XXL version of the time he tied Liem up and they talked about a similar just-my-little-toy scenario. Matt was already feeling hot under the collar, but now his mouth is distinctly dry. ]
That sounds like a really good time to be honest
congratulations and my sympathies
[ A pause. ]
I don't know if I knew you had a partner/bf?
[ That'd have to be recent, right? It feels like yesterday that Matt was showing David around Sumarlok brunch spots, answering questions. Also, he assumes they're open but now might be a good time to check. ]
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and then he woke me up the next day and like, doted on me to make up for all the rough treatment.
[This conversation is really making him feel like he and Matt are kindred, slutty spirits.]
Oh yeah I guess I never mentioned. For like a month and some change. His name is Wade.
It's an open relationship, for the record.
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That sounds really good of him π₯° [ And, you know, mandatory, but Matt can acknowledge that we don't live in a perfect aftercare universe. ] And ahaha, good to know
That's so nice, though! I hope I get to meet him sometime
[ In his heart, Matt's feeling a little weird about this? Not because David's dating someone, but just ... Matt's been here way longer, and to his name, he's got one breakup, a deeply complicated friend breakup and platonic (?) kink situation, an agreement to have coffee regularly with a beautiful girl, and the position of Nikolai's sexual runner-up.
It's just a little lonely. ]
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[Glowing praise from David, honestly.]
That aside...I'd love to catch up with you soon. After the holiday, maybe?
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[ Not that he knows David super well, but from this description, he can imagine the pair of them being formidable in conversation. Probably fun to third-wheel for, though. Like watching a ping-pong match. ]
And catching up sounds really nice. All this talking about being tied up for days and
like
my entire morning
has me thinking fond thoughts about the BDSM zone
(We can also catch up in a nonsexual way, I'd enjoy that also.)
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Oh, I bet it does.
Who says we can't do a bit of both?
[David's whole life MO has been "they said which one, I said nah I want all of 'em," and Ariana Grande still owes him song royalties for that one.]
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I like it
[ He and David are truly way past due for a tying-up-and-edging session. But Matt doesn't want to neglect the other aspects of knowing a person. He knows he has a tendency to do that, to get caught up in the perfect rush of physical intimacy and forget that like, sometimes you talk and ask questions and stuff. He's trying to improve on that score. ]
In the meantime ..... thanks for talking this out with me. I really appreciate it.
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[Truly not a joke. Truly something he feels proud of.]
I don't pretend to be, like, good at navigating feelings and stuff, but I'm trying to be better? So thanks for the practice.